True Love vs. First Love

Which kind of love do You prefer? Is it True Love? Or is it First Love? Well, after reading the book Forever, by Judy Blume, I noticed the big difference between true love and first love. Now, that book was a little bit for adults, I would say. It included sexual parts-which I skipped. But, it was  great book, because it showed me and teach me a quite Big lesson that I will always remember about, (especially when I fell in love!!) I am not going to tell You the whole summary of that book, but I would like to tell You the greatest lesson that Judy Blume meant to teach all of the readers:) Now I would recommend it mostly to the woman , but it might be good for girls too! Well, every teenager react different if they read about or see something inappropriate. So, let's get back to the subject of that post. The lesson, or moral that I learned is that Your first love cannot be Your true love. Well, First love is when You get a boyfriend/Girlfriend when You're a little older and You understand the world better, but You don't understand Love, the way that experienced people understand it. When You first get a boyfriend/girlfriend You are starting to try out new things and yes I mean things like sex, Your first real kiss(not in he cheek , but in the mouth) That's the time when You think that You know everything about Love, and when You start to trust the person. That's what happened in that book -Forever with that girl, she started to experiment with new stuff with that first boy in her life. He just wanted to do... You know what with her. But when her parent sent her to camp, she met a new boy and she fell in love with him(You know love at first sight) When her boyfriend caught with him, he got so mad at her, and told her that he cheated on her with all of the girls too. But, she didn't believe him. I did thought, he knew how it feels to have sex, and he probably liked it and he was a skunk, that's why he decided to cheat on her:( The ending of that books was a little devastating, because I thought they are going to marry, and be forever.  So, now You probably see that True love will last forever, and First Love not:) Now, some people are with each other for many many years, and everything is good between them, but some people even thought they were with each other for many years, and they don't match, they have fights, and they get divorced. Now, True love doesn't come automatically, it takes time to meet someone for your entire life.

Me Myself And I

Me Myself And I-when You saw that title, probably the first thought that came into Your mind is that this post will be about (ME!!) of course it will!! Hope You're excited;) But don't get discouraged already:( It's going to be interesting and (Funny!!) I promise:) I would like to start from how I lived in Poland, and why I came here to America. I was born in Poland, Lubaczow. Lubaczow is the name of a town that I lived in. I lived in  a apartment, and I know that before in my post I claimed that village is better than city, it's because I did know how a village looked like, because I often-very very often visited my grandparent who lived in the village. My grandparents lived with my aunts- so I didn't have to go to many places at once to visit my relatives;) I had all of them in one place:) That village where my relatives live is called-Szczutkow. Hard to pronounce right?? I know... Polish language is hard:) So, I didn't live in that village, I lived in a smaller town as I mentioned before. But, as I said before I visited my relatives very often because I really liked it in that village. I often played outside with my aunts, and I spend a lot of good time there:) Poland was a good place to live too, but I didn't like it:( First, everything is really expensive there, and the politics are crazy! So we needed to move out of there:) My mom and dad first went to Krakow to try to get a visa. I hoped that we could get a visa, and we(GOT IT!!) It was great news:) So then we came into NYC and that's how my history went on and on and on:) So, let me go back to my past in Lubaczow:) I don't come from a wealthy family, I can say that I was poor when we lived in Poland. I had a really poor education, and my parents didn't really have money to buy me new clothes:( Well, I always wanted to learn, and I'm learning so much now to have a better education and a better life when I grow up:) My mother always explained to me to learn a lot, and that's just how I became:) Always sitting in books(well, did I say Always) Hehe. But, in my house back in Poland there wasn't many books. When I came into NYC, I started to read more and more, until when I dived into all of those great books, like by Judy Blume or Gary Paulsen:)

On Being Creative everyday:)

I'm trying to get into the daily reading habit again! I read a lot of books, but the problem is that sometimes I take a  really big break from reading, which is about 1 to 2 weeks long. Which bothers me so much, because I really wish that I had the habit to read every single day, and to enrich my vocabulary more and more. But, I'm finishing to read The Hatchet, by Gary Paulsen. It's a really great book, because it has many different parts with a lot of different characters and cool scenes. Now, while I'm doing three things at the same time-reading that book, that I wrote about above, writing on my super precious, magical blog, and last but not least petting my cute little gorgeous puppy-(Tofik) I just love him, he's the best, now that's a different story(maybe someday I will write about him on my super blog) Now as You see I am trying to keep up with my reading. Last time I read a book called-Footsteps. I really enjoyed the books(although it took me a long time to read) But, it was about that woman(later she became a widow, but don't get sad, she remarried!) Her name was Debra Patterson-her children were gone in the blink of an eye:( Well You have to read it for yourself to find out more:) I truly recommend that book, especially to woman who have children. It's a really sad story, tears were pouring down my cheeks as I read that part when she first saw her children after they were abducted from here:( It was a book that I would never forget, and I really loved it-it was just great:)